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    I still keep a journal despite having a blog. No matter how spill-all-my-guts-out open I may seem, there are many things I do and think that I'll just never tell. I've always thought it kept me sane to be able to express myself without fear of being censored or criticized. Whenever I pick up an old journal, even one from my 13-year-old self I realize that as much as I've changed so much is still the same. I just know how to dodge bullets faster and better. From: HUFFPOST Healthy Living, 01/20/15


    Which is why I've decided to keep this blog around, at least for a little while longer. I've always picked up a pen (or sat in front of a keyboard) any time I needed to make sense of my world; writing allows me to get into my head and get all my thoughts out without having to worry about how ridiculous I sound (that's where the editing comes in). From: The New York Times, 01/19/15
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September 04, 2005



i really feel for you....religion is still, i believe, an important matter on man's salvation. many have soul searched for the truth, many have been misled, many have gone stray. i suggest you listen to a known filipino preacher Bro. ELi Soriano. no i'm not trying to force you into a religion, i just want you to experience a different kind of spiritual enlightening.Or you can log on to this site:



Amen to that! I know what you mean by people trying to "help" you, thinking that you have been led astray and need help finding your way back. I've had the same experience with numerous people thinking that I need saving with attempts at getting me to attend mass, prayer groups and retreats. My belief is religion is a very personal matter, what or who I believe in is my choice just as it is their choice to believe in whatever they do belive in. I say live and let live, peace!


For some reason at 32, I was enlightened. It all became clear to me. Religion was out of my life. I thought: it can't be as simple as geography (ie. you're born in Manila, you're Roman Catholic, you're born in Israel, you're Jewish...) and all it seemed to do was divide people. Of course it has its uses - it comforts people in time of need, etc. but on the whole, I think there would be less wars and the "the world would be as one" with no religion, as John Lennon wrote.


Hi Kimoi - Thanks for gently suggesting instead of outright condemning. I've always been open to reading about different religions -- not because I'm looking for one to follow, but because I find there is always truth everywhere.

Hello Raquel - I have friends and acquaintances who tell me about their faith: of how it saved them and others. I have no problem with that. But once I sense or hear judgment, then I most certainly do. I admire those who profess their faith, and then act accordingly; I have no patience for hypocrites, however.

Hi Chiqs - In high school I decided I believed in God (or some higher being) but Catholicism/Christianity was not for me. That's why our senior retreat was sheer torture; so many things just didn't make sense. I told Fr. R my thoughts about certain things and I remember how he embraced me during our final Communion; I sensed he considered me one of his lost sheep and hoped (prayed) I'd find my way back.

A few years later, although I still remained curious about different world religions, I realized I clung to a notion of God because I wanted to; I needed to believe there was one. Today I suppose I'm an agnostic, and not an atheist. Organized religion is not for me, although I'm constantly preoccupied with what makes me a good person and keep evaluating myself in terms of my ethics, even moral values.


Same. I'm probably an agnostic bec I do think there is a point in living and it doesn't just end here (this is where Torn and I differ). ANd I also am preoccupied in trying to be a good person while I'm on this earth. Not for any reward later on but just because it's the right thing to try to do. I don't believe in clouds & St Peter's gate. Heaven is here on earth.


You don't have to believe in any religion to be good. Period. :)


Hi Chiqs and Bugsybee -

I agree with you both. You can be good regardless of religion -- whether you have (a different) one or none at all.

For instance, not too long ago I worked in a company owned and headed by Scientologists. Now, I know many like to call them crackpots and crazies -- as I did -- but I got to learn a lot more about their beliefs. No one ever tried to convert me while I was an employee, but my boss (whom I was quite close to) talked a lot about how his religion saved his life and even let me read Scientology materials. He was a good man, as were many of the folks I worked with.

Honestly, there was a lot that made sense and that wasn't too different or far from from traditional religious/spiritual beliefs. I won't be converting to Scientology, but I'm grateful for the experience and knowledge. There is truth everywhere, I'm convinced, if you just open your mind to it. And definitely lots of good people of every faith, persuasion, or belief system if you allow yourself to see them.


I say this without malice and with all sincerity - pretty and intelligent people like you remind me of God's existence . . . yun lang po


Hello Kulas - Thank you for the kind compliment. Really. :)


Hi Gigi, you are very much welcome and . . . . God bless you :)


Hi Gigi,

The first time, i saw your blog i said to myself that I am going to start my own blog - - i am so inspired by the philosphy behind this beautiful expression of your self. Somehow, you touch other people's life and make them reflect.

I think the key to it all is having an open mind and a big big heart to live a full and meaningful life...


Hi Jhaya,

I really enjoyed visiting your blog site-- I'll definitely be back over and over again. :) After visiting all the pinoy bloggers from Oz, I'm determined to visit your country soon. So beautiful!

And thanks so much for the kind words; I do agree with what you said about how to live.


I stumbled into your blog from Batjay's tambayan, and I enjoyed reading your posts; not intending to leave a comment until I came across this one.
THANK YOU for writing what I have always felt. Both my husband and I were brought up in a religious environment, and sadly that only showed us the hypocrisy in organized religion. We still believe in a god or a force stronger than us, but man's religion is out.


Hi JMom, Thank you! I liked your last sentence -- so well put.


Hehehe, ikaw rin pala.

Depending on the audience, I call myself an atheist some days, then on others I'm a Cultural Catholic. I'm happy to realize from reading Torn's entry, from reading your very heartfelt entry above, and from all the comments here, that living free of religion is a catching proposition. :-)


Hello Micketymoc -- Excellent post! After undergoing 15 years of intense Catholic inculcation and upbringing, I find it automatic to think, say, or do certain things. For instance, I always cross myself before I drive. And when I'm expressing sympathy or condolences, I say the grieving person or family is in "my thoughts and prayers" -- only because I haven't found a fitting substitute for "prayers", and "positive thoughts" just doesn't seem to cut it. Yes indeed, the term "Cultural Catholic" seems to fit me, too. :)

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