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  • ADVENTURES WITH A (DYING) DOG

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    This one made me weepy this morning. Girl finds out her bestfriend and roommate -- a 160-lb English Mastiff has terminal bone cancer and only has a few months to live. So armed with a bucket list of adventures she would like to share with her dog, they go off on canoe rides, road trips, visits to both busy spots and quiet spaces and, finally, spend a last day together by the ocean in Maine, where she finally finds peace and acceptance. This is real love, people.
  • THE HEALING POWERS OF KEEPING A JOURNAL

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    I still keep a journal despite having a blog. No matter how spill-all-my-guts-out open I may seem, there are many things I do and think that I'll just never tell. I've always thought it kept me sane to be able to express myself without fear of being censored or criticized. Whenever I pick up an old journal, even one from my 13-year-old self I realize that as much as I've changed so much is still the same. I just know how to dodge bullets faster and better. From: HUFFPOST Healthy Living, 01/20/15
  • WRITING YOUR WAY TO HAPPINESS

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    Which is why I've decided to keep this blog around, at least for a little while longer. I've always picked up a pen (or sat in front of a keyboard) any time I needed to make sense of my world; writing allows me to get into my head and get all my thoughts out without having to worry about how ridiculous I sound (that's where the editing comes in). From: The New York Times, 01/19/15
  • HOW TO BECOME A WRITER
    This was lovely. The post is by a novelist who was asked how to encourage a young writer. It sounds eerily like the story of my life -- now all I need is to keep reading and keep writing (and, okay, start submitting). From: M Molly Backes' blog, 07/12/11
  • THE "PERFECT" FEMALE BODY

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    Every day at work I see all kinds of female bodies: athletic, boyish, curvy, voluptuous, natural, enhanced, preteen, post-baby, postmenopausal -- thousands of different bodies I've seen up close and personal in my lifetime. This infographic shows that the description of the ideal female body changes every decade or so, going back hundreds of years. I hope that soon we define the "perfect" body as one that is simply healthy and functioning; that what matters is that we're comfortable in our own skin. From: Greatist, 01/15/15

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January 27, 2005

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acid42

Really, i think the key is communication. If you can talk about most everything, nothing will be uncomfortable when the time comes.

And though there is a fine line between being nosy and simply being interested about how your day went, in the long run, i think children will actually respond better to parents who express interest in the child's world.

of course, this is all 2nd hand eyewitness accounts from my experience as a child rather than as a parent since i have no kids to speak of. Yet.

Gigi

I completely agree with you -- I actually see friends and relatives with that kind of open and honest relationship with their children. It makes sense; after all, if say a girl can't talk about her boyfriend with her parents, how is she going to discuss sex?

delish

My parents never talked to me about sex either... but Mom would sometimes scold me about being "malandi" because I had guy friends and I liked sexy outfits...

I have yet to hear them thank me tho, that I had the sense to want a future too... and that I never put them thru what some parents slaving away for their children's education had to go thru... a pregnant teen...

So I guess, it's also imperative for parents not to just talk about what things to say NO to... but also what things to say YES to...

and commend them for little RIGHT things they've chosen for themselves...

:)

Gigi

I'm sure if your folks are anything like mine, then they would simply prefer we say no, no, NO to sex until marriage. And then even at that point, as they bug us for grandkids, they won't be thinking HOW we're supposed to make babies. They won't even want to think about it.

I'm sure if I were a mom, I'd empathize more. But then again, the thought of how they made ME makes me cringe. So maybe I do understand more than I think. :)

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  • LISTEN: "Pluto" by Chamsom

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    I don't have to understand Korean to love this song, although I think it's about a person who was in a rocky relationship that ended but still feels deeply for her former lover and is feeling lonely tonight. "You're like a little star that's far away from me and keeps disappearing." I suppose the title -- Pluto used to be known as the ninth planet from the sun but now isn't even considered one -- might provide a bit more context to the song's meaning. Spotify
  • IMMORTAL PERFUMES

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    Immortal Perfumes is a Seattle-based micro-perfumery specializing in historically inspired, handmade perfumes. All perfume blends are original recipes made from a mix of jojoba, essential and fragrance oils. None of the oils used in this shop are derived from animals. Every bottle is handmade by JT Siems in her Seattle studio. I'm already in love with the fragrance inspired and named after Duchess Georgiana Cavendish. Notes: Black Tea, Lavender, Jasmine, Amber, Bergamot. Read her story here. #6mosnoshopping